Here I wait in excitement and submission
For you to come in and begin your perversive position
As you have me over the bed spread wide
You have all access to tan my hide
The way you want and need to
To give me all you feel I have due
With paddles, crops and floggers
They are all used to give me the markers
Then once this is done, you move me over and closer
So not only the feelings, but your words can take me under
To the place I go to for only you and your joy
For to you I am your little girl kitten play toy
*Pic from Tumblr
Day 13: Explain as best you can what the appeal of kink/BDSM is to you? Why are you drawn to what you’re drawn to?
To me, the appeal of kink/BDSM is #1, the connection you establish as a submissive to your Dom. The overall trust you are willing to give to another person and the communication that is so important in the relationship for it to be able to thrive. I know most would say the sex, but that is not the focus I had when learning about the lifestyle. I think it most likely was because I was looking so hard for this type of relationship in my own at the time, and it wasn’t there.
#2, the ability to try new things sexually that you would never be able to try with someone else without feeling like you were asking them to lasso the moon for you or change themselves for you. Being so open to try, learn and enjoy new things. I have always loved to try new things and learn new things. It’s just how I am and this gives me that. My limits are pushed and new possibilities introduced and I just love it!
*Pic used from Tumblr
1. Name 3 things that most excite your imagination when you imagine doing them? (I know TMI Tuesday blog is number one, so name three other things 🙂 ). The 3 things that most excite my imagination when I imagine doing them…Well, absolutely #1 is sex! Then the other two would be reading/writing and then music and/or painting.
2. When sleeping with your significant other (yes, actually sleeping) do you like to cuddle up or do you prefer sleeping away from them nestled in your own blanket cocoon? I love to fall asleep cuddling but then I get too hot and have to move to my own space/side of the bed.
3. Would you rather:
a. Drive 200 miles well over the legally drunk limit?
b. Drive 200 miles after being awake for 72 hours? I would rather neither one! But if I absolutely have to choose I would say drive after being awake for 72 hours. I would most likely have constant stops and music up loud
4. Would you rather:
a. Be topless all the time
b. Pantless all the time I would most likely rather go pantless. Mainly for the same reason as another blogger here (thepinkseam), my ta tas need support and of course Daddy would just Loooovvvve me being pantless at all times! 😉
5. What is something you could talk about for hours? I could talk about so many things for hours! My family, my love of music, my writing…just sooo many things.
Bonus: What is something you could talk about for hours and not bore people to death? Definitely sex! Sex does not bore and if it does not embarrass people then it excites them and there are so many aspects you can cover in just that one subject to keep all entertained for not only hours, but days!!
Check out the other posts on this TMI Tuesday!
Day 12: Tell us about a humorous BDSM/kink experience you’ve had. If you haven’t had one, talk about aspects of kink/BDSM you find funny.
Have you ever been in the middle of a scene and suddenly your Dom can’t get the cuffs to work right? I have.
Ever been walking toward your Dom and your heel twists and your ankle gives out and you almost fall? I have.
I love that we can be comfortable in our relationship enough to go through the comical things that happen and enjoy all the aspects of our dynamic not only in a scene but in our daily lives. BDSM/kink does not have to be all serious. Yes, that helps with a scene, but sometimes it’s good to have that comical relief.
We may at times be impatient or unhappy that things happen the way they do, but we love each other and work through things because of that love. We communicate and talk to one another about things. Both the good and the bad. It’s a great way to be!
*Pic used from Tumblr
Day 11: What are your views on the ethics of kink?
I’m really late today! My view on the ethics of BDSM/Kink:
The contract for BDSM, D/s, M/s, or what ever your dynamic in this lifestyle is an important part of starting out protected for all parties involved. I know some do written and signed while others do verbal. It lets the parties know the rules, how they want the relationship to grow and work and gives a good guideline to any future changes.
Another protection for all parties is the safe words. They are there to protect the sub/bottom to make sure the Dom/me knows the limits they can take their sub/bottom to and that they can handle as well as protecting the Dom/me from not knowing the limits they are working with. I have found over time the Dom/me seems to be able to read their sub/bottom better the longer they are together and the safe words may not be used or needed even though its good they are there just in case they are ever needed.
Not only are these great ethical dynamics to the lifestyle but one other thing is the support and information that those in the community are willing to help out with and share. It has amazed me and fills my heart with joy to know there are those in the community you can trust and talk to, even over those phonies that are out there.
I am late but had to get this in! Another week that has flown by. I participated as much as I could this week so had fun with my writing. There are so many talented writers on here!!
Here are some of the ones I enjoyed the most:
The Brotherhood by The Library of Nell is a sexy beginning of a story I can’t wait to read more of and find out what is next!!
When Lust Lives On by FlossDoesLife is about the love/sex life of a grandmother and her remembering those days.
Theatre by Asrai Devin is about that naughtiness in a theatre that I am sure several people have enjoyed 😉
The Past Smells of Men by May More is a great explanation of what the smell of a man can do 😉
Inhale by Kisungura is a lovely description of how the memory of smell can affect us.
Scent by F Dot Leonora is about the lovely scent of home
Demons by Little Switch Bitch. I love the explination!
Becoming a Butterfly by Submissy is beautiful
A Mermaid Underneath by Aurora Glory is gorgeous
Some other prompts to check out:
Food For Thought Friday
Check out each prompt and jump in next week if you feel so inclined! If not, enjoy some great reads! 🙂
DAY 10: HOW FAR…
What are your hard limits?
Ohhh, sooo many! But not as many as when we began.
- Water play
- Fire play
- Blood play
- Knife and needle play
- Age play
- Breath control
- Golden showers
- Cells/Closets (locked inside of)
I know there are more, but these come to mind immediately, and they are my hard limits which Daddy is in agreement with them. Daddy has always told me if I am not sure about something he suggests, like a cane (on my soft limit), I may try it out on him first. That he would not do anything on me that he would not have done to himself first.
What are your hard limits?
*Pic used from Tumblr