How did you discover you were kinky? – Day 3 of 30 Days of Kink

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Day 3: How did you discover you were kinky?

Hmmm…good question.

A few years ago, I felt something was missing in my life (including myself) and I started reading more, realizing I kept going for the kinky erotic type books.  I then started paying more attention to myself and my body.  I started thinking about things that were kinky that might key me in to what I like and that turn me on.

Once I started thinking about it, I realized one incident that had me turned on that completely confused me and surprised me, and that was when a friend of mine pulled me over his knee and started spanking me! I was mortified yet turned on at the same time! WHAT?!?!

So then I started paying attention to other things, tried some things and realized, mmmm….I like this, how can I do more of this? So I started researching and finding out the different aspects of Kink and BDSM. The fetishes that go into it, the different kinks and the meaning of so much.  I started talking to people, both Dom(mes) and submissives.  Chatting on social media and finding blogs about the lifestyle. Met my Daddy through chatting on social media.  It’s been a lot of ups and downs and fighting with my inner voices and emotions, but it’s been amazing, the things I learned and how I have gotten to this point and who I am now.

So, the answer to the question is when I realized there was something missing in my life and in me a few years ago. 🙂

How did you discover you were kinky?

Kat xx

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