Difficult Aspects of Having a Sexuality That Involves Kink or BDSM – Day 16 of 30 Days of Kink

fullsizeoutput_4745Day 16: What are the most difficult aspects of having a sexuality that involves kink or BDSM for you personally?

I guess the difficult aspects would be even though I personally like vanilla sex too at times, I would be getting bored if the other partner wanted it that way most, if not all, of the time.  Loving the kink/BDSM aspect of sex does bring out a whole new level and aspect of sex.

I used to be all vanilla and realized something was missing but didn’t realize why until a few years ago.  And thinking back, when we would get a bit primal and rougher I would love it.  Then getting into the kink/BDSM world I finally realized my need and wants, and where and how they were going to be satisfied.  Being a very sexual/sensual person that makes sense.

So, saying all that, I see it was difficult in working through and finding the sexuality that is kink/BDSM more than anything. 🙂

I hope that made sense.  I am not quite sure it does ….

Kat xx

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