Mind Boggling Crazy #SoSS


I didn’t get my Sharing post out last weekend.  Way too much going on and boggling crazy mind elsewhere.

I really enjoyed joining in on the prompts this week and sharing a bit as well.  AND, I turned in my first entry for the Smut Marathon! (This is run by Marie Rebelle of Rebel’s Notes)  Eeeek!!  Judging starts this Sunday (2/10/19).

There are a few new/fairly new prompts to take part in and they are:

The Erotic Journal Challenge by Brigit Writes

Lingerie Is For Everyone by Violet Fawkes

February Photofest by Molly of Molly’s Daily Kiss (Only for February)

Fantasy Smut Friday by Forbidden Writings

Kink of The Week by Molly of Molly’s Daily Kiss

Menstruation Matters – by A to Sub Bee

Sex Bloggers for Mental Health – by Sassy Cat

Here I will share some of the prompts I participated in this week, and also the prompts for you to be able to go to and check out other bloggers’ works and pics.

Masturbation Monday – by Kayla Lords – Sugar and Spice

TMI TuesdayMy post

Wicked Wednesday – by Marie Rebelle –  Our D/s and How Things Change

Friday Flash – by F Dot Leonora –  Hungry and Taxed


Sinful Sunday – by Molly of Molly’s Daily Kiss

Food For Thought Friday

Also, this week the amazing Kayla Lords has some great advice on “What to Do Instead of Waiting for Inspiration” on her Smutlancer podcast so check it out for some information you may not have thought of, or possibly for a reminder.

I normally would share my favorite picks from a couple of the prompts I join in on, but wanted to make sure to share the ever-growing list of available prompts to check out and join in on.

*If there are any other prompts I have forgotten or did not include the correct sponsor for these prompts, my humble apologies.*

There are a lot of prompts/memes out there to offer for your writing and reading pleasure.

Enjoy and have a wonderful weekend and new week!!

Kat xx


Hungry and Taxed – Friday Flash


I walk into his office and called out, “Hi honey, I’m here with the pizza and wine. How are the taxes going?”

“Ha ha,” he says, “How was your day?”

“It was good.  You want to hear something funny?” I ask.

“What’s that?”

“As I was walking to the pizza place next door from the parking, I looked up at the signs and with the upper stairs in the way, the signs read, Sex, Pizza and Tax! Now if that doesn’t give you a Freudian sign, I don’t know what does! HA! Sex to make you hungry and taxed of energy! Get it?!” I laugh.

He shakes his head and walks over to me in his jeans and t-shirt clad body I love.  He takes the pizza and wine bottle from my hands and places them on the near-by desk, wraps me in his arms and devours my mouth with his.

Once we come up for air, I say, “Mmmm…I should do and say this more often!”  I smile up into his gorgeous light brown eyes.  Those eyes that right now have a hunger in them that only I can feed.  My whole body turns into a molten hot mess in an instant.

“Hold that thought,” he says as he walks to the front of the office and locks the door, closing the blinds as well.

He comes back to me and in his sexy voice, whispers in my ear, “Now about that Freudian message you saw…”

He turns me around pushes my head down, lifts up my skirt and pops me on the ass. “Time to get that hunger and taxation underway!”

Oh I love when I say the right thing to get him going!


Kat xx

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Our D/s and How Things Change

Slim, Girl, Beautiful, Model

*Picture from Pixabay.

This is a post I started writing a couple of months ago, but seeing a few others here talking about D/s and BDSM and the changes from what you believed when new and what you believe now, I decided to share too.

We (Daddy and I) have, what I think is, a great relationship.  Great communication, great understanding, great dynamic in our D/s relationship.  Don’t get me wrong, we have our disagreements.  We have our misunderstandings and, yes, we can both be hard-headed.  I am submissive, and yet I am what Daddy calls cheeky at times.  I speak my mind and can get fired up at times if I believe something strongly or feel someone I love is being hurt.  It’s just who I am.  But then, I have my submissive side, that loves to take care of things (especially Daddy) and do things to make him and others happy.  I love the way he takes care of me, protects me and guides me.  I respect him for who and how he is.

I have spent most of my life taking care of my family, being the one to make the decisions and be strong for those around me.  So that side of me comes out at times, when needed, when he expects me to follow his lead as his submissive.  And even though I fight it, I always go back to doing so.   It is that part of D/s that I need, to be able to hand over my control and follow his guidance so that I can find my centre, step away from the stress and anxiety, and just be his.

That being said, I have really changed my perspective and opinions since I was new to D/s and BDSM.  I know for a fact I was in what they call “sub frenzy” for the first year of finding, getting to know and understanding BDSM and D/s.  Any Dom that gave me attention or “wanted” me as theirs I immediately fell for.  I did anything I could to show them I was a great submissive.  It was all about showing how good I could be by doing as they said, even if it led me to get into trouble.  Or showing I could be so responsive to doing what they wanted me to sexually.  (Of course that was virtual, not actually in a RL situation)

I was very naive and trusting.  But, the more I researched, learned and talked to people, the more I realized there was so much more.  I finally decided I was being foolish, crazy and could get myself hurt, so was going to just keep researching and learning and not get involved with anyone.  Looking back, I was really lucky.  The only things getting hurt was my pride, self-esteem and feelings.

Then I met Daddy.  It’s always when you’re not looking that you meet a great person, especially one that makes a big difference in your life.  We just started talking, liked a lot of the same things, shared in a curiosity of certain things and just clicked.  Our friendship bloomed and for two people not looking for anyone, we have moved our relationship slowly to something so much more.  We are not only learning our own likes and dislikes, but each other’s as well.   Starting off as a LDR (long distance relationship) and working toward a RL 24/7 relationship is hard.  It is always proving difficult and frustrating but we are muscling through it and we will get there.

When we are together, I am happy and calm for the most part.  It is hard to be in this LDR, but we are both wanting it to go further once we are able to.  We both have things we are dealing with in our own separate lives to get us to that point.

We come together at times when we can, and feed off of one another and enjoy our time together where we can dive into our dynamic.  It never fails that we both fall into a low once we have to part, and I know we are even stronger in our love once we come back together.

We look forward to the day when we will be together all the time.  We know we will be in this lifestyle, in what is called a 24/7 D/s lifestyle.  A lifestyle where we will push and pull each other, having that power exchange in so many ways.  It will not always be a bed of roses, and we know this.  We will of course have ups and downs but we will continue to communicate, compromise and work together through our issues.  We will also enjoy learning and sharing new things together, as we already do.

I look forward to the future and what it holds for us.  It’s been a rocky road at times but I know everything we go through will be worth it in the coming years.

Just a song I have fallen in love with recently.  Enjoy!

Kat xx


Sugar & Spice

Act, Po, Woman, Naked, Skin, Black Spanked

Daddy asked me to write a sexy story about figging.  I have never experienced this so I researched it, what effect it has and how it makes the person feel.  This is what I came up with…


Daddy had me strip bare and kneel in a corner in our living room to begin my punishment.  I heard him leave and come back a short time later and sit in his chair watching me.  “Bring your pretty little ass over here, Kitten,” he says and I shyly stand and walk over to where Daddy is sitting in his straight-back chair waiting for me impatiently.

He warned me about this day.   I had hoped that he would never do it, but I knew better really.  Once Daddy has something in his mind to try, there is no stopping him.  Unless, of course, I say it is a hard limit.  But, this one thing I can’t say is a hard limit.  I do know, however, that if I can’t handle it I can use my safeword and we will be done.  I have already warned him of the possibility.  He just appreciates that I am willing to try.

“All right baby girl, lie over Daddy’s lap.”  I do as he says and touch the floor on one side with my hands, and on the other side with my tip toes.

“Good girl.  Now, I know your ass is very sensitive Kitten, so if for any reason you cannot handle this for long, you must let me know.  Is that understood?”

“Yes Sir, Daddy, I understand.”  He knows my stubborn side.  I will take something as long as I can even if I shouldn’t some times, just to please him.  But with this, I am not very certain.

“Mistress Jane is here to help, as I told you she would be.  Oh Jane, please come play with my kitten now.”  As he says this, out from the kitchen Mistress Jane walks into the living room where I am laid out over Daddy’s lap. There she paused, making an impression I wouldn’t soon forget, with her leather corset, short leather skirt, stockings, tall stiletto black heels, with implements in hand.  Her long black hair tied up in a high pony tail.  There was no doubt she was ready to lend Daddy a hand.

“Well, well, so nice to see you in this position sweet kitten.  I have been looking forward to this,” she says.

“Hello, Mistress Jane.” I say with trepidation.

“I understand you have had that little spicy tongue of yours running away with you this week and being a bit cheeky with your Daddy.  Am I right?”

“Yes, Ma’am.”  I say timidly.

“Mmhmm.  So, I think we will put a little fire in your butt to see how you like a bit of spice for your discipline.”

I moan and then say, “Yes, Ma’am.”

She bends over, rubs my cheeks and starts peppering them with her hand.  Now, this I can handle.  But I know there is more to come.  So much more.

As she is hitting my bottom with her hand still, I feel her slide something into my ass.  Oh no! I should have known it wouldn’t take long.  I am being punished with figging and I am so nervous at how my body will react.  Daddy had me read up on it and the effects of it.  Using a ginger root as a butt plug while spanking and the sensations it brings to the one being punished.  So I know the purpose and what to expect.  But, of course, everyone reacts differently.  Supposedly it can be quite pleasurable and not just used as punishment.

Mistress Jane lets out a satisfied laugh as I moan as the first sensations of burning start when I tense up from her changing from hand to crop on my backside.

“Ah, there it is,” she says.  Knowing exactly why I have let out the sound from my lips.  “Get ready for her Sir G, because she will begin squirming a bit now and giving us some lovely sounds.”

He leans down to my ear and says, “Good girl, Kitten.  I am here.  We are here.  Remember your safe word and continue to be a good girl through your punishment, you hear?”

“Thank you, Daddy.  Yes Sir, I hear and understand,” I moan.

“That’s my girl.”

As Mistress Jane continues her onslaught to my bum I am feeling all sorts of sensations in my ass.  Burning, tingling, warming, and it amazes me that I feel even wetter then I normally do while getting a spanking.  Oh wow!

As she pauses to change implements and her position, she feels my pussy lips.

“Well, Sir G, looks like Kitten is a bit turned on by all the sensations she is receiving.”

Daddy feels for himself as she picks up her next choice of weaponry to my ever reddening bottom.  Daddy places his fingers on my lips and tells me to clean his fingers of my wetness and I can hear the smile and excitement in his voice.  I do as he demands and she continues with the leather paddle that she decided on.

My ass is burning now and I don’t know how much more I can endure, but I will continue on to see where it takes me.  And I know for a fact I am horny.  So damn horny.  I just want to say “Fuck me. Fuck me now!” But I know I can’t.  Although I might beg for it.

I feel her change her position again and Oh. My. God.! The leather flogger! She is such an expert with this implement.  I feel like I am being caressed and pounded with a heavy weight all at once.  I lose myself in the feelings and in the moment.  Both pain and pleasure are hitting me hard at this point and I am floating.

Then….POP!  I cry out from the sharp pain of the strap hitting me.

“Only five more Kitten, and we will be done,” Daddy says, caressing my back and shoulders.  I hold my screams, but am whimpering, and tears are falling down my cheeks.  The last crack however brings out a high pitch scream from my body and I go limp on Daddy’s lap.

“Come, Mistress Jane, let’s take her over to the couch.”

They lift me and place me on the couch on my back.

“I think she deserves a bit of pleasure, Mistress Jane.  What do you think?”

“Oh yes.  She has been such a good girl to take her punishment as she did.  She definitely deserves a reward,” she says. She then looks at Daddy and then at me, “May I have the pleasure?”

“By all means,” Daddy says, smiling at me. I then smile at Daddy and then at her, nodding my head.  I am still in a haze from all the sensations and know it won’t take much to bring me to my first climax.

She begins by running her fingers up and down my pussy lips, caressing and petting them.  Circling my clit and then moving back down to my cunt, she slides in two fingers.  I moan.  Oh yes!

Daddy is at my head and kissing me, caressing my neck and pinching my nipples.

She continues finger fucking me and circling my clit and I feel it spring on me suddenly, “Oh! I need to cum, please, please, please can I cum?!?”

“Of course, my darling,” She says and my release is fast and powerful.

“Oh what a good girl.  Can you cum for us again?”

“Yes, Ma’am,” I say trying to catch my breath.

“Mmm, I believe you can.  Turn over on your knees sweet girl and suck your Daddy’s cock while I have more fun with your lovely pussy,” she says.

Daddy sits on the couch, trousers down and his hard stiff cock ready and waiting for me.  I am on my knees facing Daddy and bend to enjoy him, leaving my ass up and ready for Mistress Jane.  As I take my time licking and sucking Daddy, Mistress Jane is lapping at my clit and pussy as she moves the root of ginger in and out of my ass slowly bringing on more of the hot sensations, making my cunt soaked again.  She licks and sucks up my essence as I continue to get Daddy hard and thick, pulling him in deeper and deeper down my throat.

He and I tip over the edge just at the same moment and it is glorious.  I swallow all he gives to me and lick him clean as I come slowly back down from my high as well.  I look up at Daddy with a big grin as he says, “Good girl.”

I then turn to Mistress Jane and ask if I might take care of her as well.  She shakes her head and says, “No thank you kitten, my sub is waiting at home for me to take all my needs out on.  I planned it just this way so that I could have a bit of fun later with her.”

I smile at her, seeing the gleam in her eye at the thought.

“Thank you so much Mistress Jane and Daddy,” I say.

“You’re so welcome and be a good girl now, you hear?” Mistress Jane says.

“Yes, Ma’am,” I say.  She says her goodbyes and is out the door on her way to her own bit of fun.

*****************************************************************************Figgin’ and friggin’   

Wikipedia definition

The DD Side of Things shares their experience

So, not all is nice in the figging world but I did read here that it turns some on even more

And for preparation and more explanation on figging

Enjoy! 😉

Kat xx

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Oohs and Aahs – TMI Tuesday

Welcome to Oohs and Aahs of it all this TMI Tuesday!

1. Do you express your sexual pleasure with moans, groans, sighs, and other noises (provided that you are actually turned on)? a.!! 😉
a. Yes, each time I have sex (90-100% of the time).
b. Yes, on most occasions (70-89% of the time).
c. Yes, on some occasions (40-69% of the time).
d. Yes, on a few occasions (less than 40% of the time).
e. No. Never, not even when I am really turned on.

2. How comfortable are you with sex in bright light or daylight? Pick one. a. At least now I am 🙂
a. Completely comfortable
b. Fairly comfortable
c. Somewhat comfortable/uncomfortable, depends on the partner.
d. Completely uncomfortable. I like to do it in the dark.

3. Is this statement True or False for you? Explain.
I would like to talk dirty with my partner, but I don’t dare for fear of being judged or ridiculed.  False! It’s hot and my partner would and does love dirty talk 🙂

4. Have you ever done a striptease for a lover (impromptu or planned)? Did you enjoy it?  No, but it would be fun! 

5. How do you feel about giving anal sex (penetration with penis, finger or sex toys)? Pick one.  a. I love seeing and hearing his response to me giving anal sex!
a. I enjoy it. 
b. I’m okay with it.
c. I don’t really enjoy it.
d. I don’t enjoy it at all.
e. I have never given anal sex.
f. I have never given anal sex, but would like to start.


This Too Shall Pass


My mind is going on and on non-stop.  It has been this way for the past few days.  There is so much happening in my life right now.  So much so that I haven’t been able to write much.  I have so much to do right now in my life that my brain is focusing on that instead.

It’s quite frustrating.  I’m actually surprised I am even focused enough to get the things done in my life that need to be done.  But, I am at least accomplishing that.  Then to calm my mind down, I am listening to a book and trying to relax.  I am hoping it is the way to get back to my writing and my creative side.  We will see I suppose.

I will get back to it, I know I will.  I just have to get past this crazy mind mess first.  As the saying goes, “This too shall pass.”

Kat xx



Starts with Music – Masturbation Monday

name-that-tune-by-sub-bee-900x450*The lovely sub-Bee  has provided this week’s prompt image. 

“Something to do with music.”  That’s what she had told her guy she wanted as a tattoo on her back.  She remembered it like it was yesterday.

As she lay across the bed on her front side, naked and waiting for her lover to play. She knew he would be taking in the very tattoo she was thinking about.  It was one of his favorites and he always caressed and kissed it as she lay there just for him.  He said it could be a song that he wrote for her.

She always thrilled at his touch on that very spot.  Always loved the way he made love to it, tracing each line of the music and notes with his fingers, as if he were writing it himself.  Little chill bumps popped out as she lay there taking in his light seductive touch.  She would get a shiver and as he felt it under his fingertips, he would give a low laugh and then begin to massage her skin, making her warm.  Warm on her skin and warm in her core, making her ache with a need for more.

He would then take the small flogger and slowly work her skin with it.  Over the tattoo from top to bottom, then on down to her lower back, cheeks and thighs.  Back up again he goes, lulling her into this lovely edgy trance.  As he moves back down, the strikes get harder and more thuddy.  She moans at the intensity that is now being directed at her.

“Ohhh, more,” she pleads

“With pleasure,” he replies, as he switches over to the larger, thicker suede flogger.

She knows it is coming and yet it always takes her breath away when the weight of it hits her.  The discomfort and pleasure combined take her to a place of her own where she is lost to the feelings he bestows upon her.

He then will ask her if she is okay; she will respond with a sound of acknowledgment as he continues his attention beneath her waist.  Her bum and thighs are now getting the brunt of the flogger and she is focused on these sensations as he brings it down harder and more forcefully.  Once again her breath catches and stops with its force.  At the most intense point she cries out, thinking she must let it out some way to get through it.

As he stops and rubs her skin, he tells her what a good girl she is.  She catches her breath and realizes there are tears falling silently down her cheeks.  She turns to him and says, “thank you”, feeling the wetness trickling from her pussy that he surely cannot miss.  As she is aware of this, he touches her there, feeling for himself and knowing where he has taken her.  The amazing intensity of pain and pleasure she feels with the flogger is one of her favorite gifts that he gives to her.

And in turn, she gives herself to him, knowing how the excitement from this play gets them both horny.  He slides two fingers into her wet cunt and finger fucks her slowly, bringing his other hand around to play with her clit.  It doesn’t take much before she is begging for release.  He tells her to cum and once she has descended down from the intensity of that orgasm he is continuing to play with her pussy, bringing her back to the quickening she feels inside.  As she is getting close, he slams into her, his cock rock hard with need and he takes her hard and fast.  They reach their climax together.  As the orgasms subside, he is kissing her neck, her shoulders, her back and murmuring what a good girl she is and how he loves her.  She responds in kind with her murmurs of love, pleasure and gratitude.  They crawl up to the pillows on the bed, curl up together and fall asleep for a while.

This is what brings them joy, and it all starts with music.


Kat xx

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