Humorous BDSM/Kink Experience – Day 12 of 30 Days of Kink

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Day 12: Tell us about a humorous BDSM/kink experience you’ve had. If you haven’t had one, talk about aspects of kink/BDSM you find funny.

Have you ever been in the middle of a scene and suddenly your Dom can’t get the cuffs to work right? I have.

Ever been walking toward your Dom and your heel twists and your ankle gives out and you almost fall? I have.

I love that we can be comfortable in our relationship enough to go through the comical things that happen and enjoy all the aspects of our dynamic not only in a scene but in our daily lives.  BDSM/kink does not have to be all serious.  Yes, that helps with a scene, but sometimes it’s good to have that comical relief.

We may at times be impatient or unhappy that things happen the way they do, but we love each other and work through things because of that love.  We communicate and talk to one another about things.  Both the good and the bad.  It’s a great way to be!

Kat xx

*Pic used from Tumblr

Ethics of Kink – Day 11 of 30 Days of Kink

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Day 11: What are your views on the ethics of kink?

I’m really late today! My view on the ethics of BDSM/Kink:

The contract for BDSM, D/s, M/s, or what ever your dynamic in this lifestyle is an important part of starting out protected for all parties involved.  I know some do written and signed while others do verbal.  It lets the parties know the rules, how they want the relationship to grow and work and gives a good guideline to any future changes.

Another protection for all parties is the safe words.  They are there to protect the sub/bottom to make sure the Dom/me knows the limits they can take their sub/bottom to and that they can handle as well as protecting the Dom/me from not knowing the limits they are working with.  I have found over time the Dom/me seems to be able to read their sub/bottom better the longer they are together and the safe words may not be used or needed even though its good they are there just in case they are ever needed.

Not only are these great ethical dynamics to the lifestyle but one other thing is the support and information that those in the community are willing to help out with and share.  It has amazed me and fills my heart with joy to know there are those in the community you can trust and talk to, even over those phonies that are out there.

Kat xx

 

Kink Related Song – Day 9 of 30 Days of Kink

17bde8a914b3e12c89cac738115fc27fDay 9: Post a kink related song or music video you enjoy.

https://youtu.be/KdS6HFQ_LUc

S&M

Na na na, come on
Na na na, come on
Na na na, na na come on
Na na na, come on, come on
Come on, na na-na na come on
Na na na, come on
Na na na, na na, come on
Na na na, come on, come on
Come on, na na na na

Feels so good being bad
There’s no way I’m turning back
Now the pain is for pleasure
‘Cause nothing can measure

Love is great, love is fine
Out the box, out of line
The affliction of the feeling leaves me wanting more

‘Cause I may be bad but I’m perfectly good at it
Sex in the air, I don’t care, I love the smell of it
Sticks and stones may break my bones
But chains and whips excite me

‘Cause I may be bad but I’m perfectly good at it
Sex in the air, I don’t care, I love the smell of it
Sticks and stones may break my bones,
But chains and whips excite me

Na na na come on, come on, come on
I like it, like it, come on, come on, come on
I like it, like it, come on, come on, come on
I like it, like it come on, come on, come on
I like it, like it

Love is great, love is fine
Out the box, out of line
The affliction of the feeling leaves me wanting more

‘Cause I may be bad but I’m perfectly good at it
Sex in the air, I don’t care, I love the smell of it
Sticks and stones may break my bones
But chains and whips excite me

Na na na come on, come on, come on
I like it, like it, come on, come on, come on
I like it, like it, come on, come on, come on
I like it, like it come on, come on, come on
I like it, like it

S, S, S and M, M, M
S, S, S and M, M, M

Oh I love the feeling you bring to me
Oh, you turn me on
It’s exactly what I’ve been yearning for
Give it to me strong
And meet me in my boudoir
Make my body say ah, ah, ah
I like it, like it

‘Cause I may be bad but I’m perfectly good at it
Sex in the air, I don’t care, I love the smell of it
Sticks and stones may break my bones
But chains and whips excite me

‘Cause I may be bad but I’m perfectly good at it
Sex in the air, I don’t care, I love the smell of it
Sticks and stones may break my bones
But chains and whips excite me

Na na na come on, come on, come on,
I like it, like it, come on, come on, come on
I like it, like it, come on, come on, come on
I like it, like it come on, come on, come on
I like it, like it

S, S, S and M, M, M
S, S, S and M, M, M
S, S, S and M, M, M
S, S, S and M, M, M

It’s a fun song and one most people know. And it is on one of my favorite movies! 🙂

Bonus:

As a bonus, this song, Bound to You, is a song this little submissive heart just loves❣️

https://youtu.be/ryXSQOR7lqU

Kat xx

*Pic from Pinterest

Erotic Kinky Image – Day 8 of 30 Days of Kink

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Day 8: Post a kinky image you find erotic.

I love this image because there are so many aspects to it.  The “head down ass up” as well as hands behind her back showing the submissive mindset. Then along with with this, the crop she is holding (in her toes no less) for her Sir showing she is ready to take her punishment and serve his need and hers.

A wonderful submissive pose that hits this submissive heart. ❤️

Kat xx

*Pic from Tumblr

Scent of Us – NSFW

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The scent of you fills my head as it fills my senses.  I am bound and can’t move, I am blindfolded and can’t see, but I can hear all you do, where ever you move and I can smell you as you move closer to me.  That masculine scent I love so much that rolls off of you in your excitement and need for this.  The musky scent of your cologne blending in and the combination making me wetter as I envision you as you move about preparing.

We decided to play on the St. Andrew’s cross today.  I am facing it, bound to it by cuffs and chains.  Blindfolded so I must use just my sense of sound and smell which heightens my sensitivity to your touch, your voice and the scents from both you, me and the leather you use on me.  Instead of the hand, you start with a soft leather paddle.  Slowly covering me with soft pops and caresses, working to cover both cheeks and backs of the thighs.  It doesn’t take long before I feel a warm glow and know it is getting a pretty pink.

You stop and I feel you move, most likely to grab the next implement.  I feel your approach and you kiss my left shoulder before you continue.  From the first contact on my right cheek I can tell it is the larger leather paddle that is a bit stiffer with less give to it.  I lean in to it at first taking the hits in until the stinging starts and I jump and moan as they get a bit harder.  I can feel I am getting redder by the moment and knowing the redder I get, the warmer I get.  I can smell the leather more and more as it heats up as well.  I take a deep breath in and focus on the leather scent.

You stop and move once more and I hear you pick up another implement and move back to me.  This time as you start it is with quick sharp pops and it being one of my favorite implements, I know it is the crop.  I jump with the first couple of impacts but then settle into the rhythm.  A few sharp pops has me exclaiming into the air as you say, “I know kitten, good girl,” and you continue. There are a few places on my bum and legs that are now quite sensitive when hit and each time you get to these spots I cry out.

The next hit surprises me because you have not walked away from me yet a new implement just went across my backside.  One I absolutely have come to be fond of.  The swish and caress of the suede flogger covers my cheeks, my thighs, my back all over and continues in this thudding, caressing manner.  And as with the other implements the longer you use it the harder the lashes and thudding from the flogger that has me gasping.  I take a deep breath in and my senses fill with the scent of leather and the smell of me as I get wetter with each new round.

I am tingling all over by this point and knowing you end with a sharp pop implement I await your next choice.  When I realize you have not moved once again, I sense the presence of another person that is handing you the next implement.  I get the faintest scent of lilac and vanilla and know it is a friend of ours that is here quite often.  This knowledge has me keen to know the next implement you will use.

With the first wallop of the strap on my ass I knew I wouldn’t be able to last long unless I lost myself in my head.  I cried out as the second lash came across my upper back thighs.  I heard you faintly say there would be four more lashes before you were done.  You sounded far away but I heard you and braced myself for them.  With each one I found myself shaking more and more, crying and sobbing with each lash to my back side and when the last one made contact I was a mess.  You reached between my legs to my pussy, fucking me with your fingers and knowing me as you do, told me to cum and I did, that fast.  You then held your fingers up to my mouth and I could smell my essence as you slid your fingers into my mouth and I licked them clean.

At this point, you made fast work of unfastening me from the cuffs, taking off the blindfold and just holding me on your lap until I had calmed down and I was breathing steady.  Our friend came over and kissed me and wiped away my tears.  You then asked if I was ready to be pleasured.  I looked up at you, smiled and nodded.  The scents of us all enveloped me in this beautiful cocoon of pleasure I will not soon forget.

Kat xx

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Sexual Fantasy – Day 6 of 30 Days of Kink

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Day 6: Describe your weirdest/most interesting sexual fantasy.

I really don’t have a weirdest/most interesting sexual fantasy.  I have, from what I see from others, a similar sexual fantasy as several other kinks out there.  And it being a fantasy I really don’t see it happening, but it is wonderful to fantasize over!

My fantasy is to be in a play room, in front of others (which I have a really hard time seeing me do in real life), where Daddy has me either on a St. Andrew’s cross or bench, being spanked, mind fucked and brought to orgasm, not only by him but by others he allows to do so.

This image has me getting really horny when Daddy and I play and yet it is something I have a hard time seeing actually happen (we have never discussed this actually), and that is why it is such a hot fantasy! I guess some would think it weird/interesting.  Yet others would say, Oh yeah, I get that and have that one too!  🙂

Kat xx

*Pic used from Pinterest

First Kinky Sexual Experience – Day 5 of 30 Days of Kink

 

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And Day 5: What was your first kinky sexual experience?  If you haven’t had one yet, talk about what you hope to have happen.

My first Kinky experience was experimenting with toys.  Vibrators and dildos were the toys.  And wow! To me that was so kinky! It definitely had me wanting to try more.

Then my first actual participating sexual kinky experience was with Daddy, dressed up in my school girl outfit (fetish costume play) in short skirt, white top, white knee highs and black Mary Jane heels with hair up in a pony tail; being spanked (impact play) with wooden and leather paddles and crop while bent over a cushioned foot stool; and wow, what a first time experience that was! We had talked about what we wanted to try a lot during the days and months leading up to us finally getting together, and we did several (I don’t think we did all) of the things we had wanted to do.

And boy have things changed since those first days! 😉

Kat xx

*Pic used from Pinterest