My #SoSS Of The Week


#SoSS of the week. 

 I’ve been a bit under the weather this week.  I was able to do a few prompts anyway.  And will share those below.

But first…

I am absolutely so freaking excited to join in on the Smut Marathon, brought to you by, that begins 27th of January! I may not be in it long, since I don’t think I am as great a writer as so many that are participating this year, but I am really excited to learn more about my writing and what works so that I can become a better writer than I am.

There are so many great prompts being offered right now to participate in.  Not only the usual weekly prompts but there are some new ones that are being offered now as well and I will list them all.  There are those that have a guest that picks out the top 3 and then there are those that are just fun to participate in and share.

And so let’s begin:

Masturbation Monday:

Marie Rebel was the guest judge this week to choose her top three in the Masturbation Monday prompt.

The three she chose are : 

  1. The Interview by Sarah Helena Hart
  2. I Took It by Kayla Lords
  3. Come To Me by Floss

Wicked Wednesday:

Floss was the guest judge this week to choose her top three in the Wicked Wednesday prompt.

The three she chose are :

  1. Your Loss by Molly Moore
  2. What Greta Did by Posy Churchgate
  3. Doing It By The Book by Ella Scandal

(These are the ones chosen prior to my #SoSS  🙂  )

**Now, the rest of the prompts offered, along with Masturbation Monday and Wicked Wednesday, are as follows and you can join in at any time:

Sinful Sunday – by Molly Moore

TMI Tuesday 

Friday Flash – by F Dot Leonora

Menstruation Matters – by A to Sub Bee

Sex Bloggers for Mental Health – by Sassy Cat

The Erotic Journal Challenge – by Brigit Delaney

The prompts I joined in this week are:

*Masturbation Monday – Sexy Tease

*TMI Tuesday

*The Erotic Journal Challenge – Discovering Your Sexuality

I am exhausted from this last week but was determined to get this in by the end of the weekend.  

Everyone have a happy week!

Kat xx

There I Go Again

*Picture from Pixabay

I really hate when I have too much time and quiet on my hands.  I went through some anxiety and over thinking yesterday. Even while trying to keep myself busy and away from it. Hate that!

Was doing the anxious, overthinking, crying, believing false voices in my head kind of thing.  Here I thought I was getting away from that and handling things better than I have been. Not! At least not yesterday.

Thing is, when my man, my Daddy, is not here and I can’t be with him to share in something that means a lot to him and a lot to me, it spurs my mind to do that crazy stuff and put me in a mode I can’t deal with very well.  You know what I mean?

My mind’s voice starts working on me negatively.  Telling me things that are untrue and that make me fall into that depressive unhappy non-loving myself mode.

So I got in touch with a couple of close friends and they got me through the rest of the evening as well as talking to Daddy.

I am a blessed and lucky girl even though at times I don’t feel like it.

Kat xx

Sexiness & So Much #SoSS


So, I didn’t do this for a week or two during the holidays.

I am back! And boy it has been really hard deciding on my favorite posts picks for some of the prompts I participate in.  I have shared the link for each weekly prompt so you can check out the other hot posts I didn’t share here!

So here we go:

Masturbation Monday: Brought to you by Kayla Lords

*I must say, Floss of Floss Does Life and her [Erotica] Sir’s Timepiece Part 2 was a great hot follow up to last week’s prompt of Sir’s Timepiece

*Lascivious Lucy shares her story Brat where this little Princess gets her punishment.  Or is it really punishment? Hmmm…

*On Queer Street shares Peppermint Tea and Nipple Pinching and ohhh is it sooo sizzling hot!

TMI Tuesday:

I don’t pick any from this prompt but it is so much fun getting to know other bloggers through participating in this one!

Wicked Wednesday: Brought to you by Marie Rebelle

I really got a lot out of this week’s prompt.  Before and After had a lot of us sharing some part of ourselves.

Like Floss of Floss Does Life (yes, Floss again! Ha!) On her Life Before, After & Letting Love In

And Marie Rebel of Rebels Notes and her Four Symbols showing her beautiful tattoo she had done for her mom

And then E. L. Byrne and the Before and After story of her wonderful journey

Friday Flash: Brought to you by F Dot Leonora

One of my favorite prompts to join in on.  It is challenging to come up with a story, poem or writing for a few words (35-500), therefore the reason it is a “Flash”  I didn’t participate since December 14th but did so this week.  Go to the link attached above and see who all is participating and what great writing there is for those short amount of words!

Kink of the Week:  Brought to you by Molly of Molly’s Daily Kiss

For this prompt Molly gives you more time to get your posts in.  (Like this current one is Jan 1-16)  I love the stories and insights to the bloggers with these posts.  Check them out by following the link above!

Sinful Sunday: Brought to you by Molly of Molly’s Daily Kiss

I participated in this prompt once. There are beautiful (sinful and sensual) pictures to see so go check them out at the link I share above!

My posts for this past week:

*Mirror Time for Masturbation Monday

*TMI Tuesday’s Fill in the Blanks

*Before and After for Wicked Wednesday

*Glass Full for Friday Flash

*Night Time Sex for Kink of the Week



The Eyes Have It

Eyes and eye contact


Kink of the Week December 16-31: Eyes and eye contact

“The Eyes are the window to your soul”
~ William Shakespeare

I have always had a thing for eyes. Their color, their shape. What you can see there. When you look closely, you can see that the eyes have it.  They have it all.  All about the person, their emotion, their thoughts, their truth and their depth.  Look closely and you can see the eyes have it all.

Eyes are beautiful!

Whether blue, green, hazel, brown or whatever color you see there.  Whether oddly shaped, one or two eyes, any kind of eyes.  I have learned that if a person is looking at you and they look away while talking they are either shy or telling a lie or untruth.  I love the challenge of looking at someone in a battle of look-away.  Eyes start watering, burning, or itching but until you absolutely have to, you don’t look away!

The most intense eye contact however is my Daddy and me.  If I am in a strange mood or not feeling up to the norm, Daddy will stop in front of me and say, “Kitten, look at me.”  I will look at him and he will look deep into my eyes and ask what is wrong.  What can he do?  He normally knows when I am a bit off and it worries him.  So, he stops and looks deep to find out what it is.

Also, when he is not happy about something, disappointed or upset about something he will give me that stern look in his eyes and I know I am in some kind of trouble then!

I have been told you can read my face like a book.  My eyes and expressions give away everything.  I think I have gotten better over the years, but I mainly have not changed.  At least to those who know me best.

One day I was in the kitchen cleaning up the dishes and Daddy calls to me, “Kitten, come here please.”

“One moment Daddy.  Let me finish putting the dishes away please.”

“Very well.”

Once I have finished I go into the living room area and Daddy is sitting on the couch on the edge of the cushion waiting on me.

“Come here Kitten and sit down beside me.”

“Yes, Daddy?”

“Kitten I am very disappointed.”

“About what Daddy?  What have I done?”  (Yes, I automatically believe I have done something wrong and have this sick feeling in my gut because I absolutely hate to make Daddy upset or let down.)

“You have been a naughty girl, Kitten.”  He looks at me most sternly.

“Please Daddy, what have I done?”

“You have not reminded me about something very important, Kitten, so now I need you to go and get your clothes off, grab my paddles and lay on the edge of the bed.  I will be there in a few moments.”

Looking abashed I go to our room and do as Daddy says.

I am nervous and so filled with trepidation for what I possibly might have done.  But I do as he says and am across the bed in just a few moments.

Daddy is not long, which also makes me nervous for he will normally take his time, and he comes in the room with, once again, that stern look in his eyes.  Yet, I see just a bit of, shall I say, amusement in his eye.  Well that gets me even more on edge.

“Well, Kitten, did you figure out what you did not remind me of yet?”

“No, Sir, what did I not remind you of?  An appointment?  A blog post?  I am really not sure.”

“Kitten, what is today?”

“My birthday Daddy.”  I look confused.  Then I light switch goes on in my head and I think, Duh! What does Daddy love to do most of all in all our play times and discipline times?? Spankings!!!  I groan as I realize this and look up at him again.  Daddy is smiling like a Cheshire cat and loving that he has seen it in my eyes and my face, the realization that I have not reminded him of my spankings for my birthday.

“Oh yes, my girl, it is birthday spanking time, and ohhhh how your Daddy is looking forward to this!”  It is all over his face and you can read it in his eye that he is ecstatic to have an extra reason to give me a spanking.

“Yes, Daddy, you are right I didn’t remind you of my birthday spanking.  I didn’t think I would need to, however, since that is one of your most favorite things to do.”

He caught the look of sarcasm in my eyes and expression.  “Just for that, you cheeky girl, you will get an extra 20!”  And off he goes giving me a birthday spanking I have yet to forget!

*Pic from Pinterest



Festivities – Prompt #343

This year has been a lot of ups and downs for me.  I honestly can’t wait to see this year behind me.

I love the Christmas Holiday season normally.  Surrounded by family and friends.  Good food, great conversations and love shared by all in just enjoying the time together.  I have felt alone some of the time this season, even when surrounded by those I love.  Feeling as though something is missing, as though a part of me is missing.  I hate that.

I really hope this won’t be the case next year.

I love when I can feel the love between all.  The happiness being together brings in and just the sheer joy of it all.  It was missing from me and that makes me sad and I really hated it.  But that, I hope, will change.  I know it will take time.

This year I basically went through the motions.  I really wasn’t excited about getting the gifts for others, which I normally love to do.  I put everything off until last minute when I absolutely had no choice but to do something or upset the ones I love.  Soooo not me.  I love to get things for others and watch them open their gifts and be all excited about what they receive.  It makes me happy.  But it just didn’t do it for me this year.

I loved being around my family and friends, but just felt off and on my own even with them all there.  I hate this feeling and I am really wanting January to get here to start a new year that I hope is filled with fulfillment, joy, love, strength, understanding and self-love. I know there is still some bumpy roads ahead and some rollercoaster rides as well, but as long as I am surrounded by those I love and that love me no matter what, I can get through it.

I have also found that being here, able to share on this blog and write (learning more and more every day), I am working through these things and finding a healing I wouldn’t get anywhere else.  I haven’t shared all my problems.  I guess I’m not ready to give the full low down.  But being here, able to converse with all you wonderful bloggers, feeling a part of this community and sharing so much with each other, I really believe this is helping me with getting through.

My goal for the new year is to get a handle on my schedule here in participating in the prompts, participating in the Smut Marathon (even if it might be briefly, though I hope not), perfecting my writing and finding the true me in my writing so that I might make a difference in some small way.  I know it has meant the world to me to get the feed back and input from so many great writers here. And making the friends I have made so far❣️

I do feel blessed through everything♥️

Kat xx

*Pic from Pinterest

TMI Tuesday

Life is very hectic right now. For many of you, this time of year may be “hectic holidays”. Well, if you have a little time you can play the following TMI Tuesday any time, any day.

Happy Holiday Season!

1. Are you celebrating or have you celebrated any holidays this December 2018? Yes, went to a couple of parties and family get-togethers.

2. Describe your typical holiday celebration. Getting a live tree and decorating it, watching Christmas movies on Hallmark as well as movies we have, baking cookies and sharing them, getting gifts for those we love and getting them wrapped, and then celebrating the day with family and friends.

3. Now tell us how you really would like to spend your holiday season. Oh definitely that, or maybe travel to other places and see how they celebrate the season 😊

4. This time of year broadcast TV is filled with Christmas movies. What is your favorite Christmas movie? I would say definitely the classics as well as The Holiday

5. Does your place of work do a gift exchange or secret santa? Do you participate? What gift did you buy to giveaway this year? What gift did you get? Where I used to work did Secret Santa but where I am now does not. It’s so much fun!

Bonus: Have you been naughty or nice?

Both, definitely‼️😉

Kat xx

Check out the other TMI posts!

F4TFriday #78

F4TFriday #78 – Bits & Bobs

Using last week’s questions, I am guessing this is for this week, so here goes:

As the year draws ever closer to a close and the holidays approach, this time of year is often one of reflection as well as celebration.

Keeping the reflective theme in mind, what we want to know this week is:

When do you feel happiest in your skin?  I feel the happiest when I am going to the gym, walking, eating healthy and having fun with my Daddy (sex and play)

How do you maintain balance in your life? Is there anything you need to change? Balance is something new I am learning to do.  I am understanding my limits, my boundaries and what is best for me and my exchanges with others.  By doing this, I am reminding myself to think over things before acting and going to counseling on a weekly basis.

What has been a particularly challenging situation that you have faced? How did you handle it? What did you learn from it?  The particularly challenging situation this year has been learning how to communicate with both family and friends, realizing what I need to make me happy (even if it doesn’t make others happy) and dealing with things differently than I have before.  It is making me a better person and I feel better in myself for it.

What does it mean to live authentically? To live authentically is to respect yourself and do things even if it makes others uncomfortable or questioning.  You have to be happy in you and be true to yourself, be authentic in you and who you are.

What are the things that inspire you and how do they work for you?  The things that inspire me is writing, music and those around me.  It helps me deal with my issues and in understanding myself and others.

If you could change something about yourself, what would it be?  If I could change something about myself, it would be to be true to me at all times. To be sensitive but to not let it overtake who and what I am.  To actually be that authentic me better.

Kat xx

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