TMI Tuesday – Random Shit

1. Which do you make more of phone calls or text messages?  Text messages more than phone calls

2. Before making a phone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?  No, I usually have a purpose for the call and just talk! Ha!

3. Name three things you and your partner appear to have in common.  Love of kink, love of traveling, love of learning and trying new things

4. Name three things about which you and your partner completely disagree and often causes arguments.  There is not much we don’t agree on at all.  The one thing I can think of is always scheduling things ahead…way ahead of time. LOL!  Which I admit can be a good thing. 😉

5. 74 percent of couples bought a brand new mattress when they began their relationship. As you embark on a serious relationship would you request your significant other buy a new mattress or would you buy a new mattress if the s.o. asked you to do so?  I know it will be done eventually, if not already, so I don’t worry about it.

Bonus: If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about your future, what would you want to know?   That all would work out and I am happy ❤

Kat xx

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TMI Tuesday – Relationships Are Work


1. Lingerie–do you like to give it as a gift or received it? I LOVE to receive lingerie!
2. What’s a good date night movie? A romantic comedy
3. When your partner asks you “what’s wrong?” do you most often say “nothing” when something clearly is wrong? Why?  I used to say nothing.  I no longer do that however.  I will normally say what is wrong or as to wait for a better time to talk about it.
4. To keep the fires burning, and the relationship fresh you need to send your significant other just one text. What is that text?  “I want and need you”

Bonus: What was your last grand romantic gesture?  Well, it could be one or two things… I made a romantic dinner dressed in nothing but an apron.  I also got him an implement he had been wanting for quite some time. 😉

That was fun! What’s next?? 😛

Kat xx

TMI Tuesday – Happily Ever After ??


1. If married, had you slept with any of your wedding guests not including the person you married? How many of the guests had you slept with? No, I had not sleep with any wedding guests.
2. Weddings again–Ever gone to a wedding and hooked up with another guests?  No, I have never hooked up with another guest at a wedding.  Interesting thought though 😉
3. Do you get along with your partner’s family? Why or why not? Yes in regard to both my ex’s and current.  I guess we just love each other and have no qualms to not be able to get along.
4. Who in your romantic relationship is usually the first to apologize after a fight?  Well, depending on the person in the wrong would be the normal person to apologize first.  We are both adult enough to admit when we are wrong and apologize.
5. When was the last time you dreamed about your partner? What it a good dream or a nightmare?  Two nights ago.  It was just a weird dream and made no sense at all!


Bonus: Do you think that fate or destiny play a role in love?  Yes I do.  There is always a reason a person is brought into your life.  To continue on in it or to learn a lesson from and move on.

Kat xx

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TMI Tuesday – Spill it!


Spill! It’s time for another TMI Tuesday.

1. Who in your life do you wish you’d met sooner? I believe people come into our lives when they do for a reason so I would not change that
2. Who in your life do you wish you’d never met? Why? Once again, there is a reason for a person to come into my life, good or bad (or good turned bad, or whatever) and so I would not wish to have never met someone.  If they are there for only a short time, even if it is bad, it was a lesson learned and we move on.
3. What personality trait or description that others attribute to you do you hate? Hate is such a strong word.  I dislike that a lot of people attribute me to being sweet and always good.  Because they find out later they are wrong and get upset.  (JK! But that is a worry of mine) I don’t like disappointing people or seen as a bad person, but I am a human and we all make mistakes at times.
4. If you have children, do you want them to be just like you? No, I don’t want them to be just like me.  I want them to take my good qualities and their dad’s good qualities and combine that in with the person they are as they go through life and learn their own ways of being.
5. What have you given up but yet used to love? Foods high in fat, people and the girl I used to be (although this gal right here is pretty great, even if I do say so myself. And no, that is not being narcissistic but being self-loving, thank you very much, which was not normal for me!)

Bonus: Why do people say “heads up” when you should duck?  It’s so people can realize something might be coming at them, so look out then duck or move if necessary.

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TMI Tuesday – Tough Decisions Ahead


1. Name 3 things that most excite your imagination when you imagine doing them? (I know TMI Tuesday blog is number one, so name three other things 🙂 ). The 3 things that most excite my imagination when I imagine doing them…Well, absolutely #1 is sex! Then the other two would be reading/writing and then music and/or painting.

2. When sleeping with your significant other (yes, actually sleeping) do you like to cuddle up or do you prefer sleeping away from them nestled in your own blanket cocoon?  I love to fall asleep cuddling but then I get too hot and have to move to my own space/side of the bed.

3. Would you rather:
a. Drive 200 miles well over the legally drunk limit?
b. Drive 200 miles after being awake for 72 hours?  I would rather neither one! But if I absolutely have to choose I would say drive after being awake for 72 hours.  I would most likely have constant stops and music up loud

4. Would you rather:
a. Be topless all the time
b. Pantless all the time  I would most likely rather go pantless.  Mainly for the same reason as another blogger here (thepinkseam), my ta tas need support and of course Daddy would just Loooovvvve me being pantless at all times!  😉

5. What is something you could talk about for hours? I could talk about so many things for hours! My family, my love of music, my writing…just sooo many things.

Bonus: What is something you could talk about for hours and not bore people to death? Definitely sex! Sex does not bore and if it does not embarrass people then it excites them and there are so many aspects you can cover in just that one subject to keep all entertained for not only hours, but days!!

Kat xx

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TMI Tuesday – Nov. 6, 2018


1. Do you go out of your way to be nice?  I usually do, just because I would want others to make the effort for me.

2. Some time ago people were buried with items they would need in the afterlife, what would you want buried with you so you could use it in the afterlife?  Hmmm…my favorite vibrator (teehee!), music player with all the music I love, and a devise to talk to my loved ones.

3. What social stigma does society need to get over?  I just really think this world needs to stop trying to separate those that are “different”.  Everyone has their purpose on this earth and just because someone is different from another person does not mean they are wrong or shouldn’t be here.

4. When was the last time you told someone “I told you so.”?  I don’t normally say that, I just am happy when I can prove in some form that I am right sometimes.  It’s nice to know I can be right at times. 🙂

5. When was the last time you were snooping, and found something you wish you hadn’t? What did you find?  I don’t snoop. It doesn’t bring anything but anger, sadness or hurt if something is found that I had no business looking for in the first place. I would hope I can trust them enough that I would never think to go snooping.

Bonus: What small seemingly insignificant thing did your parents or someone else say when you were a child that has stuck with you all this time? Always make sure you can take care of yourself and never have to count on any man or anyone else to take care of you.

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TMI Tuesday-On The Road Again


1. Tell us about the last road trip you made: When? Where did you go? How long was the overall trip? Did you go alone? Did you have fun?  It’s been awhile, but went on a day trip to the mountains, on my own, just to get away. It was beautiful and just what I needed to recenter and get back to me. 🙂

2. Do you love to travel?  Yes I love to travel!

3. What’s the best place you’ve been? Do you want to go back? One of the best places I have gone is London.  I love the historical old feel of the place, everyone seemed welcoming and open to things going on around them.  I would love to go back again.

4. Would you travel for sex? Have you traveled more than 50 miles just to have sex?  For the right person, of course! Maybe I have, maybe I haven’t 😉

5. What sexual act or sex position do you struggle with doing? So far I haven’t struggled with any, as long as they are in my limits I have no qualms.

Bonus: What are you into but have not told anyone?  Hmmmm….Puzzles, I love working and finishing puzzles 🙂

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