Dom, Sub, Switch? – Day 1 of 30 Days of Kink

I saw a fellow blogger posting the 30 days of Kink challenge and decided I wanted to do this starting today, November 1. So, this should be interesting…here goes:

Day 1: Dom, sub, switch? What parts of BDSM interest you? Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically define your kinky self for us.

Definitely Submissive!  I love to serve and feel needed.  I feel I need guidance, protection, support and a bit of discipline.  I cannot see myself as a dominant nor switch.

Definition of: What is a sub? By The Ultimate Guide to being a Submissive

The definition of a submissive is an obedient, compliant person who likes to give up control.  They crave being used and need to serve.  They are the subservient partner of a relationship and that is why “sub” is always spelled with a lowercase while “Dom” is always capital.  A submissive can take on many different roles such as:

They strive to please their Dom in all things, not just sexually.  This means that they may have to give up some of their own personal freedoms and preferences.  It is not uncommon for a sub to have a mild and quiet personality. They are obedient, and accept disciplinewhen needed.  Subs aim to conduct themselves  in a respectful and modest manner at all times, recognizing that their behavior is a direct reflection on their Dom.

I don’t completely agree with the above definition, but, it covers all. I am somewhat of a little (DD/lg, D/s-where I don’t do age play but need the guidance and enjoy doing things like coloring, watching movies, etc…), slight masochist and Kitten/babygirl.  I need the freedom to give up my control to center my mind and being.  My mind does the over-thinking, over-analyzing a lot and needs that guidance and giving up of control to lead it to be quiet.  It’s amazing to have that ability in the D/s relationship.

Now, we are all different and have our own ways of doing things and living the lifestyle in our own way.  It is up to the Dom/sub relationship/partners to determine what rules and ways of that D/s relationship they will live and follow, whether it be just a relationship where they get together as scheduled, or a 24/7/365 lifestyle relationship.

So, that is my kinky self…submissive.

Have a wonderful day and Happy November 1!

Kat xx

*Pic from Tinkleberry

Oh How The Mind and Body React – NSFW

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Here I lay on our bed, legs tied apart to the posts on each corner, head propped up by pillows, in my beautiful purple corset, holdups and hair up in a pony tail and Daddy sitting in a leather armed chair just where he can watch me back from the foot of the bed.  He has left my hands free at the moment and I am waiting for his direction.

“Kitten, I want you to slowly, with your right hand touch the lips of your cunt and only your lips, moving up and down, from the tip around your clit to the lower part near your butt.  Then with your left hand play with your nipples.  Show Daddy how much you enjoy touching yourself for him.” He said.

“Yes Sir.” I said.  As I was wide open for him to see all, I felt vulnerable yet extremely horny, as I slid my fingers up and down my lips and pinched and caressed my nipples.

“Good girl. That’s it, slowly” he said as did so, “Look at me, don’t look away and don’t close your eyes.  Yes.  Imagine you are being watched by several Dom/mes and subs.  They are surrounding us, around my chair and the bed.  Your eyes stay on me, knowing they are here watching.  Now, dip your fingers, two of them, into your cunt and tell me what you feel.”

“Wet Daddy. Very horny.”

“Good girl.  That’s it, continue slowly sliding those fingers in and out.  Squeeze on your fingers with those lovely muscles that love to squeeze Daddy’s cock so hard.”

“Mmm, yes Sir, Daddy.”

“That’s my Kitten, my little minx.  Show me how much you enjoy touching yourself for me.  Oh yes.”

I sigh, more like a purring sound, and continue touching and fingering myself.  Oh how my mind and body react to his words.  Getting wetter and feeling the excitement building in my body, the sensations taking over my actions as I start to finger fuck myself harder and moan with the pleasure.

“Kitten…stop!” he says all of a sudden seeing me come close to climax.

I moan, stop myself and say, “Yes, Sir.”

“Good girl.”

He then stands, goes to one side and ties my wrist to the upper post on the right side then walks to the left side and does the same.  He then walks over to the foot of the bed and looks down at me.  “It’s Daddy’s turn,” he says with a gleam in his eyes.  I see the crop in his hand and he starts peppering me with pops from the crop up and down my legs and then a few good pops to my cunt that has me squealing. Once he feels pleased with his marks on me he drops the crop and dives in to my cunt. Licking my clit, my lips up and down, plunging his tongue into my pussy and not letting up until I am gasping.

He then stops for a second to look up at me, face glistening with my juices and he is back in, both tongue and fingers this time.  Finger fucking my cunt and licking my clit so fast it feels like a vibrator.  It didn’t take long till I was begging him to let me cum.  He waited a bit more into my begging before he finally told me to cum.  I did, and wow, did I ever!

He was not done however.  He picked up the Doxy and before I had even come down from that orgasm he had me buzzing back up to another.  I couldn’t move, I couldn’t even wiggle from it, and there was no escaping the fast building orgasm that was about to explode through me again.  I didn’t even have to beg. Daddy just said, “Cum for me now kitten!” And I did.

Once I did, Daddy loosened the ties on my legs and arms, pulled me down to the end of the bed and impaled me with his rock hard cock.  So hard it brought me back up quickly and as he reached his orgasm with mine he said, “You. Are. Mine!” with the last three pumps and we both cried out in our pleasure.

He then pulled out and climbed up with me, cradling me in his arms and just holding me for a while. Both of us basking in each other and what we share.

Kat xx

*Pic from Pinterest

 

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Pain and Pleasure…Con’t from Shaving – NSFW

“Okay Kitten, your turn. Now go get me a couple of paddles, wood and leather, and the crop.”

I run over to our toy box and pull these items out, going back over to Daddy and place them on the bed as he directs.

“Good girl.  Now lie over the foot board with a pillow and widen those legs, baby.”  I do as he directs and I wait.

He walks over, behind me to the other side of me and says, “Are you ready, Kitten?”

“Yes Sir, I am ready.”

“Okay I will start with a warm up.” And he starts by lightly tapping each cheek all around with the smaller wooden paddle.  It is stingy and I feel my butt getting warmer as he continues.  He then pauses and asks, “Warmed up enough, Kitten?”

“Yes Sir, Daddy.”

“Good girl,” he says. Then he begins harder spanks with the wooden paddle.  I gasp at the sharpness of each contact and he then says, “10 more on each cheek, babygirl. Count them for me after each one.”

“Yes Sir,” I say.

As he begins I proceed to count, “One, thank you Daddy, may I have another?”…

I am almost yelping at the end of the last 10.  He then changes over to the leather paddle at this point.

“Okay Kitten, pull your knickers down to the top of your thighs. We will do 12 on each cheek. Ready?”

“Yes Sir.”

After the 12 on each, I am moaning at this point.  He then does 5 on each thigh, both back and front.

He changes over to the crop.  One of my favorite implements.

He peppers my cheeks, thighs and pussy with the crop.  He tells me to pull my knickers back up and has me lie on the bed on my back.  He continues to pop my pussy with the crop. I can’t help myself and giggle for a second from the sensation.

He stops and goes over to the toy box and gets a couple of our favorite toys, including my smaller wand.  He begins with our small vibrator and places it on my clit.  He says he wants me to cum for him in my knickers first.

Mmmm….it feels so good and I am so sensitive after the spanking that I can feel it won’t take much before I cum for him.  As I think this, I am getting close and cry out “May I cum Daddy, Please!”  He says, “Yes, baby, cum for me.” And I do, just that fast.

He stops and changes over to the small wand and tells me to take off my knickers so he can get to my beautiful cunt.  I do this and he starts the wand buzzing on my cunt and clit.

He gets down between my thighs and starts licking my pussy, circling my clit and sucking on it.  I moan as he is working all the sensitive spots and I am enjoying every touch he gives me along with the wand.  I feel the quickening of my pulse and the closer I am getting to going over the edge.

“Oh Daddy!”

“Yes, babygirl…?”

“Mmmm….Oh Daddy!”

“Yes, baby, cum for Daddy. You know you want to.”

Then it suddenly hits me and I can’t hold back any longer.  “Daddy!! Please…can I cum???”

“Yes, Kitten, cum for Daddy now!”

I cum so hard I shout out and am shaking with the extreme feelings of it all.  I can’t stop shaking or coming and he finally takes the wand away.  I start to calm down and catch my breath.  He comes to me and holds me through my sobs and racing heart.  I quietly kiss him and thank him.  He tells me there is no need for me to thank him, but I feel the need to thank him any time he gives me pleasure, and even spankings.

It is what we do. Give each other pleasure and are thankful for it.

KK

*Pic found on Pinterest

Experiences in this lifestyle

Since being with Daddy and delving into this D/s lifestyle, there have been so many things I never thought I would do, feel or experience.

From knowing I am submissive, to realizing so many kinks I never thought I would enjoy, it’s been a grand ride! I am learning so much and loving it. For I am one that loves to learn and experience new things all the time.

Let’s see how many things I can list:

  1. Daily pictures of both day time knickers and night time knickers
  2. Butt plug wearing
  3. Kegel balls wearing
  4. Vibrator by app play
  5. Play time with Daddy setting the scene and my imagination taking me right along with him to orgasm
  6. Daddy sending me play costumes to wear for him for playtimes
  7. Daddy sending me lingerie, stockings and a butt load of knickers (his passion)
  8. Daddy getting implements (paddles…so many paddles, crops, floggers, etc…), toys, blind folds…
  9. Going to places I’ve never been before
  10. Guidance in organizing my life
  11. Guidance in helping with my mantra
  12. Daddy giving me so much support in my writing and doing things I love doing, creative wise

I know there is more but stopping there. A great start to my experiences in this lifestyle❣️ Thank you, Daddy❤️

I hope it brought some great memories back to you with my sharing mine!

KK xx

*Pic found on Pinterest

Shaving time – NSFW

Daddy finished shaving my cunt and it was my turn to shave his cock and ball sack area.

I slowly and carefully shave the whole area, making sure I am extra careful around his sensitive ball sack. Once done I clean the shaving gel off with a warm cloth.

Enjoying shaving and getting turned on as I am doing so, I ask, “Daddy, may I play with Daddy’s cock now?” Seeing that he is as turned on as I am, he tells me I may.

I start by taking the tips of my fingers moving up and down the tip of his steadily growing cock. With a quick intake of his breath I continue.

I then cover the tip in kisses and slowly draw the tip into my mouth, pulling it in deeper with each passing of my lips over the shaft. I hear him moan in pleasure as I continue to go deeper; going deeper into my throat as I feel his balls fill up to the hilt and his cock swell to the point of explosion.

I moan in response wanting to beg him to cum for me. But no need, as soon as his cock hits the back of my throat he makes a cry out and says my name loudly, as he spurts his cum down my throat.

I take it all and am so wet and so turned on I mewl as I work Daddy’s cock as he comes down from the high he has been on from my coaxing.

“Oh babygirl, it is now time for Daddy to pleasure you. But first, a little pain before pleasure.”

To be continued…

* Pic from Pinterest

Some of my favorite kinks

Took me a bit to decide what I wanted to talk about on my blog post today.

I have decided to share some of my favorite Kinks:

*Spankings – with various implements as shared in my previous blog post

*Dress up – School girl, maid, flight attendant, cheerleader, lingerie… I know not everyone likes dressing up play times, but to me it’s fun and can get you (me) in the right mood and head space for play

*Bondage – Cuffs (hand cuffs, leather cuffs), rope, blind fold… This is an exciting part of play time; can make you (me) nervous, heart racing, senses heightened and feelings of no control

*Toys – Butt plugs, vibrators, wands, wheel, feathers… To me, these things help heighten and enhance the play time experience

KK xx

*Pic from Pinterest