Write…Read…What’s next?? – #SoSS

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A little late, but better late than never, right?! 😉

There is so much going on right now! So many prompts a person can participate in and read!  I want to do them all!! 

Unfortunately I can’t and I hate it because I would love to give everyone my support all the time.  And it helps me with my writing.  But, even if you are great with scheduling things and doing them, it’s still hard to cover them all.  And I am not one that is very good at that. 

AND, I am participating in the Smut Marathon.  I thought I was clever doing a poem type writing for my first story since it was so short.  Obviously I was wrong. 😦  I have already started learning from it with a few recommendations and helpful insights (thank you to all who left comments!).  So, I am still in it for this next round (2) and will hopefully get to the next one.  Crossing fingers, toes, hair….well, you get the jest.  

Anywho…

Here are the prompts I participated in this past week and a few more that are available for your participation or reading pleasure. 🙂

Masturbation Monday:  Wicked Daddy

TMI Tuesday:  My Post

Wicked Wednesday:  Erotic Photo

Friday Flash:  Locked Together in Love

Others prompts:

Sinful Sunday

Menstruation Matters

The Erotic Journal Challenge

February Photofest

Fantasy Smut Friday

Food For Thought Friday

Lingerie is for Everyone

Kink of the Week

Sex Bloggers for Mental Health

Tell Me About Dominance and Submission

There is some really great advice out there if you are interested.  For all of us writers out there, if you didn’t see the input for our writing, please go to the voting page of the Smut Marathon and see what you can learn!

I love when you can get advice from those that have “been there, done that,” so kinda have an insight on how things might work.  Check out the unsolicited, yet quite helpful, advice from Brigit Delaney regarding things to look for and possible insight on writing.

Better get back to getting ready for my next writing assignment! Have a great week and enjoy, whether writing, reading or both!

Kat xx

 

The State of Happy – TMI Tuesday

The State of Happy

1. Do you like where you live or do you wish you could move? I do like where I live but life is ever changing and I know there are other places I would love to live some day….Like… the beach…. another country… the mountains…

2. No matter what life throws at me, I believe that I can deal with it. Agree or Disagree? I agree.  I have so far and lived through it.  I believe I can deal even though at times it doesn’t feel like I can.

3. A dear friend is stuck in an unhappy relationship. What advice would you give to the friend to cope–how can they make lemonade out of lemons? It’s hard to cope through an unhappy relationship.  I have found that sometimes you have to let go of something to be happy again.  Thing is, I can’t tell anyone that, they have to find out for themselves.  All I can do is be there for them and support them through it.

4. Nothing of value can be learned from failure. True or False? False!  At least in my opinion.  I believe we all can learn from failure.  There is a lesson in all things, whether it is doing great or failing.

5. Even if you are sure about your ultimate choice, do you still ask others for advice before making an important or risky decision? I do, just because that is who I am.  I like to know all my options or know what others see that I may not see before making the ultimate decision.  But that ultimate decision is always mine, no one else can make it for me nor be held responsible for it.

Bonus: What is the sweetest or rewarding moment in your life?  There are a couple moments I can think of.

Knowing my children have done well.  And knowing myself and where I am going and doing with my life.

Kat xx

See who else is sharing this TMI Tuesday:

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Mind Boggling Crazy #SoSS

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I didn’t get my Sharing post out last weekend.  Way too much going on and boggling crazy mind elsewhere.

I really enjoyed joining in on the prompts this week and sharing a bit as well.  AND, I turned in my first entry for the Smut Marathon! (This is run by Marie Rebelle of Rebel’s Notes)  Eeeek!!  Judging starts this Sunday (2/10/19).

There are a few new/fairly new prompts to take part in and they are:

The Erotic Journal Challenge by Brigit Writes

Lingerie Is For Everyone by Violet Fawkes

February Photofest by Molly of Molly’s Daily Kiss (Only for February)

Fantasy Smut Friday by Forbidden Writings

Kink of The Week by Molly of Molly’s Daily Kiss

Menstruation Matters – by A to Sub Bee

Sex Bloggers for Mental Health – by Sassy Cat

Here I will share some of the prompts I participated in this week, and also the prompts for you to be able to go to and check out other bloggers’ works and pics.

Masturbation Monday – by Kayla Lords – Sugar and Spice

TMI TuesdayMy post

Wicked Wednesday – by Marie Rebelle –  Our D/s and How Things Change

Friday Flash – by F Dot Leonora –  Hungry and Taxed

Also:

Sinful Sunday – by Molly of Molly’s Daily Kiss

Food For Thought Friday

Also, this week the amazing Kayla Lords has some great advice on “What to Do Instead of Waiting for Inspiration” on her Smutlancer podcast so check it out for some information you may not have thought of, or possibly for a reminder.

I normally would share my favorite picks from a couple of the prompts I join in on, but wanted to make sure to share the ever-growing list of available prompts to check out and join in on.

*If there are any other prompts I have forgotten or did not include the correct sponsor for these prompts, my humble apologies.*

There are a lot of prompts/memes out there to offer for your writing and reading pleasure.

Enjoy and have a wonderful weekend and new week!!

Kat xx

 

Our D/s and How Things Change

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*Picture from Pixabay.

This is a post I started writing a couple of months ago, but seeing a few others here talking about D/s and BDSM and the changes from what you believed when new and what you believe now, I decided to share too.

We (Daddy and I) have, what I think is, a great relationship.  Great communication, great understanding, great dynamic in our D/s relationship.  Don’t get me wrong, we have our disagreements.  We have our misunderstandings and, yes, we can both be hard-headed.  I am submissive, and yet I am what Daddy calls cheeky at times.  I speak my mind and can get fired up at times if I believe something strongly or feel someone I love is being hurt.  It’s just who I am.  But then, I have my submissive side, that loves to take care of things (especially Daddy) and do things to make him and others happy.  I love the way he takes care of me, protects me and guides me.  I respect him for who and how he is.

I have spent most of my life taking care of my family, being the one to make the decisions and be strong for those around me.  So that side of me comes out at times, when needed, when he expects me to follow his lead as his submissive.  And even though I fight it, I always go back to doing so.   It is that part of D/s that I need, to be able to hand over my control and follow his guidance so that I can find my centre, step away from the stress and anxiety, and just be his.

That being said, I have really changed my perspective and opinions since I was new to D/s and BDSM.  I know for a fact I was in what they call “sub frenzy” for the first year of finding, getting to know and understanding BDSM and D/s.  Any Dom that gave me attention or “wanted” me as theirs I immediately fell for.  I did anything I could to show them I was a great submissive.  It was all about showing how good I could be by doing as they said, even if it led me to get into trouble.  Or showing I could be so responsive to doing what they wanted me to sexually.  (Of course that was virtual, not actually in a RL situation)

I was very naive and trusting.  But, the more I researched, learned and talked to people, the more I realized there was so much more.  I finally decided I was being foolish, crazy and could get myself hurt, so was going to just keep researching and learning and not get involved with anyone.  Looking back, I was really lucky.  The only things getting hurt was my pride, self-esteem and feelings.

Then I met Daddy.  It’s always when you’re not looking that you meet a great person, especially one that makes a big difference in your life.  We just started talking, liked a lot of the same things, shared in a curiosity of certain things and just clicked.  Our friendship bloomed and for two people not looking for anyone, we have moved our relationship slowly to something so much more.  We are not only learning our own likes and dislikes, but each other’s as well.   Starting off as a LDR (long distance relationship) and working toward a RL 24/7 relationship is hard.  It is always proving difficult and frustrating but we are muscling through it and we will get there.

When we are together, I am happy and calm for the most part.  It is hard to be in this LDR, but we are both wanting it to go further once we are able to.  We both have things we are dealing with in our own separate lives to get us to that point.

We come together at times when we can, and feed off of one another and enjoy our time together where we can dive into our dynamic.  It never fails that we both fall into a low once we have to part, and I know we are even stronger in our love once we come back together.

We look forward to the day when we will be together all the time.  We know we will be in this lifestyle, in what is called a 24/7 D/s lifestyle.  A lifestyle where we will push and pull each other, having that power exchange in so many ways.  It will not always be a bed of roses, and we know this.  We will of course have ups and downs but we will continue to communicate, compromise and work together through our issues.  We will also enjoy learning and sharing new things together, as we already do.

I look forward to the future and what it holds for us.  It’s been a rocky road at times but I know everything we go through will be worth it in the coming years.

Just a song I have fallen in love with recently.  Enjoy!

Kat xx

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Oohs and Aahs – TMI Tuesday

Welcome to Oohs and Aahs of it all this TMI Tuesday!

1. Do you express your sexual pleasure with moans, groans, sighs, and other noises (provided that you are actually turned on)? a.!! 😉
a. Yes, each time I have sex (90-100% of the time).
b. Yes, on most occasions (70-89% of the time).
c. Yes, on some occasions (40-69% of the time).
d. Yes, on a few occasions (less than 40% of the time).
e. No. Never, not even when I am really turned on.

2. How comfortable are you with sex in bright light or daylight? Pick one. a. At least now I am 🙂
a. Completely comfortable
b. Fairly comfortable
c. Somewhat comfortable/uncomfortable, depends on the partner.
d. Completely uncomfortable. I like to do it in the dark.

3. Is this statement True or False for you? Explain.
I would like to talk dirty with my partner, but I don’t dare for fear of being judged or ridiculed.  False! It’s hot and my partner would and does love dirty talk 🙂

4. Have you ever done a striptease for a lover (impromptu or planned)? Did you enjoy it?  No, but it would be fun! 

5. How do you feel about giving anal sex (penetration with penis, finger or sex toys)? Pick one.  a. I love seeing and hearing his response to me giving anal sex!
a. I enjoy it. 
b. I’m okay with it.
c. I don’t really enjoy it.
d. I don’t enjoy it at all.
e. I have never given anal sex.
f. I have never given anal sex, but would like to start.

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This Too Shall Pass

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My mind is going on and on non-stop.  It has been this way for the past few days.  There is so much happening in my life right now.  So much so that I haven’t been able to write much.  I have so much to do right now in my life that my brain is focusing on that instead.

It’s quite frustrating.  I’m actually surprised I am even focused enough to get the things done in my life that need to be done.  But, I am at least accomplishing that.  Then to calm my mind down, I am listening to a book and trying to relax.  I am hoping it is the way to get back to my writing and my creative side.  We will see I suppose.

I will get back to it, I know I will.  I just have to get past this crazy mind mess first.  As the saying goes, “This too shall pass.”

Kat xx

 

 

So Much for #SoSS

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So, I have had sooo much going on recently.  My goal to be better about scheduling ahead worked one week so far. (Ugh! Life!)  I will be doing better.  I have to!  I signed up to participate in the Smut Marathon (Eeeek!) and am researching other avenues regarding writing and where I want to take things this year.

There are a couple of new prompts that have been started.  The Erotic Journal Challenge by Brigit Delaney and the Lingerie is for Everyone by Violet Fawkes.  Check them out and join in if you feel moved to!

Starting on January 27, tomorrow, the Smut Marathon begins.  So check out what is going on there and support all the writers.  They appreciate helpful feed back and input.

Beginning February 1 will be the February Photofest by Molly of Molly’s Daily Kiss.  It will be a daily photo sharing for February! Many use it as a building tool for self-esteem, or a source for pushing your own limits and comfort zones.  Or just something absolutely fun you can share with others of a like mind.

So far I have participated (not all the time nor every week) in the following prompts:

So far that is it.  I hope I didn’t miss one.  I only was able to participate in two this week:

*TMI Tuesday

*Wicked Wednesday with Exploring Her Bodyscape

I definitely plan on doing more this coming week!

There are other prompts out there as well.  Keep your eyes open on the reader feed and on twitter.  Not sure where else to watch for but if you want to get some writing in, there is always something to join in on.

Have fun and enjoy the rest of your weekend and the coming week!

Kat xx